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He Was Clueless, But She Didn’t Stop Trying! | In Love or Not


(upbeat music) (laughing) (clears throat) – My name is Aria. I’m originally from Beijing, China. I’m an only child because we had the
one-child policy in China. I just never really felt this
strong bond with my parents. I mean, there was always respect and love but I don’t think it was
like openly communicated. – Hi, I’m Rohan and I’m from Arizona. I was born in India. I always knew my parents,
they really loved each other, especially my dad. My dad will make these
exclamations of love, whereas my mom will never say anything, but I almost felt like they could never be without each other. And that I felt from both of them. (playful guitar music) – The first time that I
saw Rohan was in college. Where we went to school
there was always like, these Asian basketball tournaments. And I remember he was on one of the teams, they always won. And I’m not just saying that,
they were always number one. (laughs) And on the court, he’s
kinda like water on ice. He just dribbles and has
really nice jump shot. And also he was tall. (laughs) So I asked him for his number to help me get better at basketball. – In my head I was like, I
don’t want to, but I said yes. She wouldn’t wear basketball
shorts when she played, she would wear cheerleading shorts. I was like, from a visual perspective, I was very attracted to
her as well. (laughs) She would text me about going to parties or going to get lunch. And I didn’t understand
how the two were related. I was like no, I’m okay. – Or I’m studying. I’m like okay. That’s cool. Pretty much he was clueless. (laughs) So I was like one last ditch effort, I’m going to invite him
to this Culture Night. And surprisingly, he said yes. – Probably for the last
month of my junior year of college, we hung out like 24/7. – Like we couldn’t be
peeled away from each other. – We had a long dating
period where we were unsure of what the other person was to us. We just knew it was serious but we didn’t have a label on it. – I don’t even know, it
must have been two years. – I didn’t know how to say those things, even sitting down and like, so do you wanna be my girlfriend? It was a little bit challenging for me to be open about how I
feel and tell her that I really need her in my life
and like she makes it better. Things like that, it’s
hard for me to say that. Even admit it to myself. – Yeah. I can’t remember easily
being able to say I love you. Even now it’s still hard. To just get the words out of my mouth. I’m very reserved about those
kinda very strong feelings towards another person. Maybe, I don’t know, I don’t
like being too vulnerable. – Yeah. (upbeat music) – He knows how to push my
buttons and he always does it. And does it really well. Even if it’s literally pushing my buttons like he’ll just poke me. (laughs) And I’m like focused on something and trying to get something done. And I’m like what are you
doing, what do you want? He’s just like. (laughs) – I don’t like the way she drives. – Oh I’m a good driver. – [Rohan] She thinks
she’s a very good driver. – I am. – She’s an Asian woman so
you know what I’m saying. – See this is all serious level BS. – No she does this thing, she’ll
follow cars really closely like she’s a tailgater. – He’ll always go, you know what I mean? Like he’ll explain a really long thing and he’ll be like, you know what I mean? You know what I mean? You know what I mean? And I’m like yes I know what you mean. – When she cooks she will
follow the recipe to a T. If it’s like three minutes,
it’s three minutes! She’ll start freaking out. You can never just like off
the cuff make something. It’s like let’s follow the recipe. – I don’t know if that’s true, sorry. – Of course. – I think I’m more relaxed
about stuff like that. In general I’m pretty easy going. I’m not very, I just let
things kinda just you know … – You don’t have to defend it I think. – Anything else? We spent the bulk of our 20s together. And I think you grow a lot in those years. You really come to realize who you are and having shared all that
with him shaped me as a person. And also my viewpoint on life. And love. And he’s had the patience to stick it out. – I realized through our relationship, for me love is about a sense of respect. If I didn’t respect that
person and not ever have to be disappointed in their character, for me that’s, I love that person. For me love is the respect. Um, we are not, I’m not in love. I do love her very much. We dated off and on for five
years and two years ago, we decided to end the relationship. – I’m not in love but I do
love who he is as a person. The respect that we’ve
developed for each other is always going to be there. – But for me being in love,
it kinda goes in and out. It’s like you were infatuated at first and you kinda stick it out
cos you’re comfortable. Then you come back to love
and you’re in love again. And then it goes away. So in love is kinda like shifting. – But right now though I
would say we’re just friends. – Yeah. – Very close friends. Yeah. (sighs) – [Man] Soulpancake. (upbeat music)

Otis Rodgers

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100 COMMENTS

  1. Radha Chatterjee Posted on May 6, 2019 at 3:52 am

    Sometimes there are family pressure too, specially for Indian guys.

    Reply
  2. subscribers with no content challenge. X Posted on May 6, 2019 at 5:04 am

    Sakth launda ..

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  3. Raj M Posted on May 7, 2019 at 10:48 pm

    Girls voice is awesome 😍

    Reply
  4. Ashok Singh Posted on May 8, 2019 at 10:40 am

    he's really stupid to reject her 😑

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  5. Love God Posted on May 9, 2019 at 3:25 am

    I think by now, the boy already was sold for 100 million dollars, 150 kilograms gold jewelry, 1000 kgs silver , a hi Fi 4 wheeler, 2 wheelers, immovable property, cash etc. His parents already did great business to fill their bank accounts.

    Reply
  6. Ira Thapa Posted on May 9, 2019 at 6:14 am

    I faced the exact same situation. Except I am an Indian girl and he is a Chinese boy. I pursued him and initially he responded well too but then I don't know what went wrong. Watching their story makes me miss him more now.

    Reply
  7. Star Knight Posted on May 10, 2019 at 7:41 pm

    I hope you both stay together

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  8. Cool Dude Posted on May 11, 2019 at 1:39 pm

    He wasn't clueless,

    He was scared of his parents!

    Reply
  9. H Naiwang Konyak Posted on May 12, 2019 at 5:07 pm

    Both of you are so cute…… Perfect for each other😍

    Reply
  10. lazy. taledragon Posted on May 12, 2019 at 8:18 pm

    I feel like he is a really hard person to love. And just from looking at him for 6 minutes straight, I feel like he is too passive and cannot really love someone passionately for a long time.

    Reply
  11. riri queen Posted on May 13, 2019 at 9:56 am

    Love is respect… 👏👏👏👏

    Reply
  12. K Puia Posted on May 14, 2019 at 3:18 am

    If i had a girlfriend like that …. Marriage is…. An option

    Reply
  13. Mystery Man Posted on May 15, 2019 at 5:00 pm

    Chindians are on the way.

    Reply
  14. kamal ranjan Posted on May 16, 2019 at 4:28 pm

    This guy resembles a Tamilian actor.

    Reply
  15. manish kalyan Posted on May 17, 2019 at 5:13 am

    Woooa. Cmnt sctn is filled with love gurus😂

    Reply
  16. Najee Sha Posted on May 19, 2019 at 12:51 am

    I am an Indian and I absolutely find the guy Handsome.. They should have been a couple

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  17. Kunz Klingsor Posted on May 19, 2019 at 1:51 am

    She is in love with him totally, but is in the friend zone. He wants no part in the love/romance area, and should tell her so. Stop playing with peoples feelings, so many nice guys would welcome her.

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  18. so cxc Posted on May 19, 2019 at 8:29 am

    Hi im indian n hes cute

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  19. Lesley Kramer Posted on May 20, 2019 at 4:32 pm

    They look good together.

    Reply
  20. Abanti Banerjee Posted on May 20, 2019 at 9:14 pm

    that is funny… both of them are so sad because they don't want to love each other but what is good is the respect they have between them.

    Reply
  21. cristybello Posted on May 22, 2019 at 11:46 am

    Such beautiful people!

    Reply
  22. cristybello Posted on May 22, 2019 at 12:01 pm

    Being in love is an every day work. Love is just love…. it is pure and unconditional

    Reply
  23. Jaya Nunna Posted on May 22, 2019 at 8:00 pm

    They are both so beautiful

    Reply
  24. szorohov85 Posted on May 23, 2019 at 10:56 am

    nooooooo they look so cute

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  25. Soeung khang Posted on May 23, 2019 at 2:04 pm

    What is really love ? Depends heart open mind or

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  26. Faisal T Posted on May 23, 2019 at 5:53 pm

    The guy seriously needs to get his dumbo ears 👂 pinned back & a nose 👃 reduction!

    Reply
  27. Imran Khan Posted on May 24, 2019 at 2:29 pm

    Why white people hate Dark brown Indian.. And same black

    Reply
  28. Jasmine Zhang Posted on May 24, 2019 at 4:25 pm

    The Chinese girl looks very educated, attractive and humble. I think she deserves much much much better than this.

    Reply
  29. Suresh Ruparel Posted on May 25, 2019 at 10:06 am

    Cannot judge just by few glimpses and few talk doesn't show full details of personality of anybody it take's time you understand that wine tasting like secession

    Reply
  30. Ashish Phookan Posted on May 25, 2019 at 1:16 pm

    They are both gorgeous!

    Reply
  31. fireflies543 Posted on May 25, 2019 at 6:13 pm

    this is what happen when asian women gets brainwashed with western liberal crap,they end up dating tragical nasty dudes like this stinky indian.

    Reply
  32. Retro917 Posted on May 25, 2019 at 6:32 pm

    I hope he ate that ..

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  33. avinash ankamreddi Posted on May 26, 2019 at 8:45 am

    Rahul ji grab her,she lives you very much. And don't make it another Indo-china stand off 😄😄😄

    Reply
  34. joe joe Posted on May 26, 2019 at 8:58 am

    This dude has a great head of hair. Wow.

    Reply
  35. Sam Red Posted on May 27, 2019 at 12:30 am

    I have experienced that non Indian girls find Indian guys handsome.

    Reply
  36. Ana RS Posted on May 27, 2019 at 10:25 am

    Damn this sounded awkward.

    Reply
  37. Brooke Wallace Posted on May 27, 2019 at 3:44 pm

    Beautiful relationship.

    Reply
  38. Nikhil Sharma Posted on May 28, 2019 at 11:13 am

    Bahbhi is good

    Reply
  39. prashant singh Posted on May 28, 2019 at 9:17 pm

    Of course they are

    Reply
  40. ZuboyTV Posted on May 29, 2019 at 5:28 am

    She might love you , BUT DONT FORGET BROTHER , WE SEND YOU TO BE CEO OF YOUTUBE , just like we send other expendables at google , Microsoft , MasterCard
    DONT FALL FOR LOVE , be THE CEO AND MAKE SURE T-SERIES IS ON TOP !

    Reply
  41. vamsi krishna Posted on May 29, 2019 at 12:05 pm

    Some Indian guys look so handsome Even though they are brown..

    Reply
  42. Gerish Colesc Posted on May 29, 2019 at 11:06 pm

    They should live apart and then they will know. One should join the Military then not see each other and after two yrs. and meet in Paris if still not married. and see. have a date. then don't meet the next day and see what happened.

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  43. MalinFluff Posted on May 30, 2019 at 10:16 am

    When they first sat down I was like "nope nope way too awkward to be in love" but I was fooled by their cute stories 🙂

    Reply
  44. varsha tayade Posted on May 30, 2019 at 6:26 pm

    This boy is hving really good looks his skin tone is dusky but its beautiful🥰… oh! why do Indian gals falling for white skin boys I dnt understand.. I feel bad whn western ppl or evn most Asian ppl talks abt tht Indians smells like curry nd they r black…. I wnt to tell all of dem yes we eat curry n we dnt smell atall… n Indians r diverse in all places of d country n u wud neva understand the beauty of diversity…

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  45. Al Hazen Posted on May 30, 2019 at 11:43 pm

    His love definition was a little strange……

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  46. Trap Kannada Posted on May 31, 2019 at 10:52 am

    Love is 💩💩💩💩💩
    Go work hard
    Make your parents and country proud

    Reply
  47. Captain Soap 600 Posted on June 1, 2019 at 4:45 pm

    That is love ❤🇿🇦🇿🇦❤

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  48. AAa m Posted on June 3, 2019 at 4:49 am

    Id like to know if the guy had dated before, reminds me of tony kanal from no doubt who had gwen stefani in love with him and wanted to have his baby but the guy had never been in relationship before and it was hard for him and they broke up. I thought this pair got together and were married but I was way off. I can feel like she was still in love with him or shes a dam good actor.

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  49. BOB BISWAS Posted on June 3, 2019 at 3:20 pm

    Being an Indian u fallen in love of a Chinese girl ???? shame on u .

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  50. Nujac Ordep Posted on June 5, 2019 at 8:57 am

    Damn she was aggressive af to get him lol

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  51. SDD41 Posted on June 5, 2019 at 4:52 pm

    He has to ask his mama's permission.

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  52. meerespflanzen Posted on June 6, 2019 at 5:53 am

    I’m asian female and I think he’s super cute!

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  53. Xiu Zu Posted on June 7, 2019 at 2:33 am

    I guessed wrong.😕

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  54. Serena Camilleri Posted on June 7, 2019 at 4:39 am

    I guessed correctly but I didn’t want to be right… based on his perception of his parents relationship I expected him to show more closeness? brightness? And it just wasn’t there. Also they sat apart in the beginning

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  55. Adil Ali Posted on June 8, 2019 at 12:46 am

    Complicated relationship

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  56. Aarti Patel Posted on June 8, 2019 at 4:29 pm

    Rohan come on men c loves u….. Don't b like dis….. Please

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  57. Newbie S Posted on June 9, 2019 at 6:02 am

    I like them both individually.. They look so good and I can totally understand his situation as I have been in one myself.. The respect aspect that he mentioned is so true.. He doesn't really wants to hurt her..but he is not being to able to lie to himself too

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  58. Monica Posted on June 9, 2019 at 8:36 am

    He is soo good looking

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  59. PRIYA JAMES Posted on June 9, 2019 at 1:36 pm

    You could easily telll they are not in love.. Actually trough out the video i was looking for some signs that might show their love, like a twist in a movie.. Too bad i was disappointed. They seemed like 2 opposite charactered people. I mean there are couple's who are complete opposite in their nature and still be totally in inseparable, and we could easily see the one thing keeping them together like that and that is love. With these guys I'm sure thay have a lot of compassion and respect for each other, but that is not enough to be a good couple.

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  60. ACrazyPerson Posted on June 9, 2019 at 2:29 pm

    he considered it , she still does and they both would give it a go ! I know because , I've been through this :/ They would stick around for eachother

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  61. Ann Sy Posted on June 10, 2019 at 8:00 pm

    She loves him , he's not sure.

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  62. Avi Rah Posted on June 12, 2019 at 3:34 am

    When I look them I see that love and care in those eyes for each other ..I think they need to communicate and start to open up ..try things together..life is too short and nothing is for granted .. Even if it's your love or work you need to give your all need to work upon thing's..Start doing things which you feel happy together..try to understand each other's feeling and let other open up with you .. That's true love and one more thing in a relationship never let ego come forward that's true way of taking things forward and improving each other ♥️

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  63. The Tears of Jungkook Posted on June 12, 2019 at 3:54 pm

    I feel really bad for her since the feelings aren’t mutual at all, I hope she finds happiness with the right person who will love her back

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  64. Jose R Suarez Posted on June 12, 2019 at 6:53 pm

    Show love for ur special other is wonderful,is awesome,been in love is the best thing to a human being!

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  65. dandelionwawa32 Moonie Posted on June 12, 2019 at 8:00 pm

    She looks too mature for him…even she nice but i guess this guy has high expectations maybe he loves girls who r prettier maybe those hot korean woman or cacasian he likes i guess

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  66. Love Kunis Posted on June 13, 2019 at 5:02 pm

    He's cute (and I'm brown too so..)

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  67. Adam NA Posted on June 14, 2019 at 1:14 am

    Lol well that was cringy!

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  68. korlum chukhu Posted on June 14, 2019 at 5:13 am

    She loves him

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  69. 2 PLUS 2 FIVE Posted on June 14, 2019 at 7:23 am

    lol!!! indian men seriously need dating lessons are honest and nice guys bt really really shy!!!!!

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  70. nagappar raveendran Posted on June 15, 2019 at 8:39 am

    SO

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  71. Paul Kaje Posted on June 15, 2019 at 10:36 am

    Sad that they cant feel each others heart. They look good together

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  72. Chico DePuertoRico Posted on June 15, 2019 at 10:16 pm

    Love is something that's always fleeting… it's normal to fall in and out of love… I think we have a misconception of what love should be… you're not meant to love one person for the rest of your life… and if you do, great! But things change… people change. That's just how Life works.

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  73. krishnaprasad m Posted on June 16, 2019 at 4:23 am

    Both are loving each other why you want to break off? If you did both suffer abominable pain in your life , you guys know each other will beacuse your journey is long enough so guys live together for rest of your life.Remember this their is no one ready to accept and understand you very easily.

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  74. Cat Kay Posted on June 16, 2019 at 4:05 pm

    This is gonna be such a gorgeous baby!

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  75. Liz Kinde Posted on June 17, 2019 at 1:27 am

    no hay una segunda parte de esta bonita pareja?

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  76. Hari Cohly Posted on June 17, 2019 at 6:20 am

    I think she is right for him and he is right for her.

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  77. depressed cat Posted on June 17, 2019 at 8:34 am

    He is a true India you won't understand girl.

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  78. Rhonda Rose Posted on June 18, 2019 at 11:03 am

    Omg Aria is gorgeous

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  79. Cake and Horses Posted on June 20, 2019 at 4:37 pm

    Men like him are a waste of time……

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  80. Clara Vasconcelosss Posted on June 20, 2019 at 10:13 pm

    Translating that 'Oh yeah' in the end: 'I still love him but he doesn't want nothing anymore, so yeah' kkkkk

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  81. Ashish khaitan Vlogs Posted on June 22, 2019 at 6:02 am

    Women can shift from one relationship to another within a small time period men on the other hand have difficulties overcoming a breakup ,
    Maybe Rohan didn't want his heart to be broken and so he maintains a distance.

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  82. saidelle n Posted on June 23, 2019 at 3:08 pm

    they helped each other grow and respect each other so much obviously. ofc they love each other, but they might not be in love with each other.

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  83. Recoil God Posted on June 24, 2019 at 9:30 am

    Can anyone Imagine how smart their childrens are going to be and what will they look? Maybe Brown but Asian looking. I know that sounds racist but I am curious

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  84. Shekha Mohammed Ali Posted on June 26, 2019 at 2:54 pm

    Yap they are in love

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  85. Rishme Sheriff Posted on June 29, 2019 at 5:49 am

    Ah what an idiot she seem like such a nice girl and a catch too

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  86. Rajat Krishnan Posted on July 3, 2019 at 9:16 pm

    All can i say is Good Night everyone!!

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  87. tintunbirha Posted on July 5, 2019 at 11:21 pm

    Both of you are super stupid.

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  88. Arcadia Ardana Posted on July 7, 2019 at 10:19 pm

    I could tell they were not in love by the way she looked down at the beginning of this video when they sat down. I literally am 100% accurate on all these videos- kinda crazy

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  89. the last Jedi Posted on July 10, 2019 at 11:21 am

    She is all really… Really cool chick

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  90. Phoenix Dragon Posted on July 14, 2019 at 6:17 pm

    5:04 she was hoping he would say he still loves her. 🙁

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  91. Sahil Kale Posted on July 18, 2019 at 12:30 pm

    We need more India Japan, India Vietnam, and India Korea love too lmao

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  92. slokytheone Posted on July 19, 2019 at 12:32 am

    Did he just said im from arizona, i was born in india? Howww? This makes no sence 😏😏😏

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  93. Siama Biate Posted on July 28, 2019 at 10:08 am

    They're not in love at all but maybe as a friend but not to that level of seeing themselves married and be a soulmate something.
    There is lots of awkwardness and space between them even though they're close.
    It can be result of Different race,nationality or they don't really trust each other at all.

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  94. Ricky Rajput Posted on August 5, 2019 at 7:44 am

    Cmon dude …that girl truly love the guy …everyone can see that , but this guy

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  95. the beatles are the best Posted on August 8, 2019 at 11:36 am

    Common boy,go marry the girl is your chance.

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  96. the beatles are the best Posted on August 8, 2019 at 11:37 am

    I think the guy is shy but he like the girl.

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  97. MagBlueRoses Posted on August 11, 2019 at 2:21 pm

    Idk abt him but she’s definitely still in love with him!
    Like what??? She looks soooo genuine and so in love, he’s probably gonna regret losing her. Probably.
    But he looks fineeee.

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  98. Jennie Ho Posted on August 11, 2019 at 6:54 pm

    She is very Americanized where he is too reserved. She is better off with someone else.

    Reply
  99. puspita Posted on August 16, 2019 at 9:06 pm

    You can tell she likes him because of the way she looks at him when he talks

    Reply
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