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How to Get Over Someone


We tend to be generous towards people who can’t get over someone. It sounds romantic, if a little sad. The love affair happened a year ago but still the ex’s thought remain loyal
to every detail of the story. Maybe they’ve moved to another country. Perhaps they’ve married someone else. Maybe, they’re dead.
None of it matters. The most famous fictional love affair
of the 18th century Goethe’s Sorrows of Young Werther is a hugely sympathetic study
of this kind of romantic fixation. The hero, Werther,
an ardent young student falls passionately in love with a charming and beautiful woman
named Charlotte. She likes him but
doesn’t love him back in part because
she’s married to someone else. There are plenty of
other nice women who single, attractive,
and interested in Werther. But, he has no time for them. The only one he cares for
is Charlotte. The one who doesn’t care
for him. Eventually, unable to have
Charlotte’s love Werther decides to kill
himself. The novel proved
hugely charming to its original audiences. Who praised it for its deep
and pure understanding of love This sort of unrequited passion so often celebrated in literature
and society more generally may sound generous,
and in that sense, loving, but, a devotion to
an unrequited situation is in truth, a clever way
of ensuring that we won’t end up in a relationship at all. That we won’t ever need to suffer
the realities of love. Fixation on an absent other allows us to be publicly
committed to love while privately sheltered
from any of its more arduous demands. The fear of love maybe
motivated by a range of factors A squeamishness around hope, a self-hatred which makes
someone else’s love feel eerie, or a fear of self revelation
which breeds a reluctance to let anyone into
the secret part of ourselves. The fears are serious
and deserve sympathy. But they are generally not the issues that the romanticly fixated person ever wants to discuss. They prefer to keep the spotlight
on the unresponsive ex, rather than on their motives for continuing to dwell on them. The way to unfixate
is not to tell ourselves that we never like the person. It’s to get very serious and specific
about what the attraction was based on. And then to come to see that
the qualities we had admired in the ex must necessarily exist
in the other people who don’t have the set of problems
that make the original relationship impossible. The careful investigation
of the character of one person, paradoxically but very liberatingly shows that we could in fact,
also love someone else. This is not an exercise in getting us
to give up on what we really want. The liberating move is to see that what we want has to exist
in places beyond the pain enducing character we originally identified it in. We should gently recognize
that being dissapointed and abandoned has its curious satisfactions. It is in an emotional sense, a very safe position to be in indeed. Yet true love isn’t to be acquitted
with pining for an absent figure. It means daring to engage
with a truely frightening prospect. A person who is available
and thinks despite our strong background
supposition to the contrary that we’re really
rather nice. That is perhaps,
the only sort of challenge that properly deserve
the lyrical and grand word ROMANTIC.

Otis Rodgers

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100 COMMENTS

  1. Leon Posted on May 5, 2019 at 9:45 pm

    You never get over someone, you are just left with another scar

    Reply
  2. UnderGrowth Posted on May 8, 2019 at 2:57 am

    i need a xanax. fuck my life

    Reply
  3. Matteo See Posted on May 13, 2019 at 7:59 am

    I fucked up the relationship and i know she hasn’t moved on but i dont think I can win her back

    Reply
  4. Prabhat Soni Posted on May 20, 2019 at 1:16 pm

    You should reference what parts of the content you have borrowed so we viewers can also read them as well

    Example 3:16
    Is from https://www.nikosmarinos.com/how-to-get-over-someone1.html

    Reply
  5. RAINBOW DIP Posted on May 21, 2019 at 12:46 am

    Damm I rilly did fall in love with a hoe

    Reply
  6. fhfs Posted on May 21, 2019 at 7:11 pm

    1.Stay busy.
    2. Stay off social media
    3. Stay away from clubs or lounges you went to together.
    4. Join groups and meet new people
    5. Make a weekly planner and weekly goals that has you moving.

    Reply
  7. Furious Posted on May 23, 2019 at 12:09 am

    I'm not sure if I am in the wrong video, but I have this great teacher, that spoke to me differently than all the other teachers and actually made me love chemistry,

    She's leaving this year, I don't exactly know why, but I know Ill miss her a lot

    Reply
  8. Aarti Patel Posted on May 23, 2019 at 9:01 pm

    My crush liked someone else and talked about her in front of my face even thought he knew I liked him I feel bad those girls out their in this similar situation

    Reply
  9. Jonas Kopstad Posted on May 28, 2019 at 3:05 pm

    Who else tryna get over someone they’ve never dated?

    Reply
  10. Outlaw Posted on June 1, 2019 at 2:13 pm

    There’s is a girl that is attracted to me and I’m attracted to her, but I don’t want to get into a relationship. Relationships bring nothing but stress, frustration and heartbreak. I want to forget about her for good so I can concentrate on my career.

    Reply
  11. htfcm Posted on June 3, 2019 at 4:02 am

    This is why you never let anyone get close EVER!

    Reply
  12. AdrienGetsFed MarinetteFeedsAdrien Posted on June 5, 2019 at 5:33 am

    Im getting over my cousin i love him as a cousin now he's going into another country he's 8 im 9

    Reply
  13. VOIP Portland Posted on June 9, 2019 at 6:43 am

    Men sulk in sadness and despair for weeks, months, sometimes years. Women just flipped the switch and move on.
    But society wants you to believe women are the delicate flowers.

    Reply
  14. greventlv Posted on June 9, 2019 at 10:20 pm

    "That thinks, contrary to the negative supposition, that we are really rather nice." This part in the video made me cheeks flush, like I had just kissed someone for the first time 🙂

    Reply
  15. Claude Dawmpston Posted on June 11, 2019 at 10:14 am

    Just found out my girlfriend cheated on me with a younger dude, taking his virginity, when she drank too much a couple weeks ago. She started acting super weird and pushing me away. I asked over and over what happened, giving her every chance to admit the truth… worst part is our relationship was kept secret and she didn't want anybody to know even though it's been nearly 2 years. Red flag there.
    She was basically trying to sweep everything under the rug like none of it existed, including us until she lost her phone and I found it.
    Couldn't help but go through that shit and there it was, finally the truth. I confronted her and after she confessed a bunch of shit she apologized and asked for a hug… are you kidding me? I've treated you like a queen, giving myself entirely and you waste that shit and expect things to just be ok?
    Can't even look her in the face without my stomach twisting… and I have to see her nearly every day…

    Reply
  16. The Thinking Being Posted on June 11, 2019 at 5:35 pm

    I understand how love might make someone feel impossibly hooked to them, but jumping off a balcony closes all future possible options. This man was closed-minded and was not willing to look for alternate solutions outside of what he already knew

    Reply
  17. ez Lava Posted on June 11, 2019 at 11:42 pm

    "Sharlet" she was the love of my life until one day everything vanished.For me to move on i had to take the red pill and am now okay.

    Reply
  18. Elizabeth Long Posted on June 12, 2019 at 8:58 am

    ◔ ◔¨ *

    Reply
  19. Brandon Faun Posted on June 12, 2019 at 7:39 pm

    Fall in love with yourself first? 🖕
    That's easier said than done and can be a lifelong effort…doesn't mean you should deprive yourself of the opportunity to invest in someone else.

    Reply
  20. The New Drug Posted on June 13, 2019 at 1:34 am

    definitely made by a virgo

    Reply
  21. awesomeguynamedjon Posted on June 13, 2019 at 10:50 pm

    I loved once. Never again.

    Reply
  22. King Henry VIII Tudor Posted on June 14, 2019 at 2:25 pm

    I always wish I never intangle with her as I was not suppose to but did because of work.
    She was very charming and loved to socialize so we quickly became best of friends. Funny fact is that she was rhe only person in my school to give me both a Christmas and birthday present.
    Off course I was infatuated with her and had a crush but chose to hide it .
    Thn one day, she started treating me like a stranger again, a nobody, seemingly very angry at me for reasons even she doesnt want to tell me. Which is very illogical for a Valedictorian student.

    But anyway, she is gone now but I still cant get over her and I still feel very unsettled as you know, you are moving on with somehing not finished just doesnt feel right.

    Reply
  23. Rey Reyes Posted on June 16, 2019 at 10:49 pm

    Hey school of life!
    I wanna say thank you guys for these videos and all the books.
    You have no idea how you have influenced, matured and helped me grow as a person.
    Your videos have given me direction in everything from confidence to empathy in others to even up holding my integrity in the craft I'm passionate about, comedy. You've made me feel like I have a purpose but I do request thing of you. I struggle with letting go, in all aspects of my life, I didnt realize it until my therapist pointed it out. From letting go dumb comments online to letting go past relationships, mistakes, I even still linger on things I did wrong in high school. I have idea of what the issue is rooted in but if there was anything you guys put in a video on the subject I'd appreciate it. Thank you again for everything.

    Reply
  24. Matrinique Posted on June 20, 2019 at 4:50 am

    "getting over someone" has too many unhelpful connotations at this point. I think the better phrase to use is "letting go of someone." Let them go. Let it, the relationship, go. Let go of that person, that past. Accept how it is, cry it out, think it through, in order to gently set yourself free. What was that saying? "Strength doesn't always mean holding on. Sometimes it means letting go." And from Anne Frank, "the only bolts we need to worry about are the bolts we set in our own minds." Freedom is freedom from our own mental traps.

    Reply
  25. Yangming Hu Posted on June 20, 2019 at 5:14 am

    I really needed that, thank you.

    Reply
  26. Kyle W Posted on June 20, 2019 at 5:34 pm

    What really hurts is that I know she likes me but doesn’t want to be with me because she is leaving soon. 😞 It’s even worse cause I see her everyday.

    Reply
  27. Sheldon Cooper81 Posted on June 22, 2019 at 8:10 am

    I could ve used this video in 2016.

    Reply
  28. Chloe, That's me Posted on June 23, 2019 at 2:04 am

    I met someone today all I know is that he is a Gemini and likes anime like me….

    I'm already in love

    Reply
  29. qt chickn Posted on June 29, 2019 at 1:06 pm

    Woww the timing for this video on my recommendations

    Reply
  30. Loser Gang Posted on June 30, 2019 at 7:14 am

    The worst thing is that she's done nothing wrong. At all. She seemed interested in me for a while. Even told me she'd date me if she were to ever want a relationship. Told me she loved me (unclear if she meant platonic or romantic but that's Capricorn's for ya). We had a weird moment. She says she's straight and I respect that. She may have truly thought she had feelings. Maybe she did. Maybe she didn't. Maybe even she does still. It's hard to see how she feels. I cannot know unless I ask. I can't put her in that position. She is one of my best friends. She was the first one to make my heart race in the best way. I can't hurt her by putting our friendship in jeopardy. The only way to keep safe is to wait for her. If she does nothing, I'll be okay. I just don't know what'll happen if she does something. It's been a while since she's given any signs. I found a way to put crushes on standby. The list. It's people who you pause crushes on, but if they were to show interest, you would be open to a relationship with them. Depending on the circumstances of course. Don't follow my advice dog I'm just as much of a gay mess as you.
    Yee yee, a minorly bummed out lesbian

    Reply
  31. Brandon Sanchez Rojas Posted on July 2, 2019 at 10:24 am

    Great Video 😁

    Reply
  32. Steve Zali Posted on July 7, 2019 at 1:59 pm

    I got helped with my Breakup thanks to those guys FOR FREE: http://www.surgicalcoaching.net/. Super helpful

    Reply
  33. Richard Jeffery Posted on July 8, 2019 at 10:19 pm

    My girl left me last night after 6 years,Its OK I'm over it now, phew

    Reply
  34. Aden Posted on July 11, 2019 at 2:21 pm

    Love sucks. Fuckin hurts, this shit. I want to throw up.

    Reply
  35. Féli Posted on July 14, 2019 at 11:25 am

    Stuck in the absence of love.

    Reply
  36. Translator Posted on July 19, 2019 at 2:21 pm

    It took more more than 2 years to get over someone I didn’t even date…..0/10 wouldn’t do it again

    Reply
  37. Bobanderand Posted on July 19, 2019 at 4:43 pm

    Been single for years and I just met this awesome girl that also likes me and we hit it off this week, but as of now i won't be living within a few hundred miles of her at any point in the next year 🙁 guess i'll stay single

    Reply
  38. Sydney Sacino Posted on July 21, 2019 at 1:17 am

    I feel like it wasn’t smart to put the wine bottles in the thumbnail bcus what if someone’s an alcoholic lol

    Reply
  39. eurie444 Posted on July 22, 2019 at 12:24 pm

    The woman I love is called Charlotte. The one, who doesn’t care for me.

    Reply
  40. John Erikson Posted on July 23, 2019 at 1:11 pm

    Love Can Make You Happy .. https://youtu.be/_IIS684ZgvU

    Reply
  41. Jack Leach Posted on July 26, 2019 at 8:44 pm

    I seriously need help. So I know a girl who lives in New Zealand (I live in the UK), and we know eachother through our Parents being mates. She came to visit in January (before then we were mates and I thought nothing more), however, since her visit, I’ve developed strong feelings for her and I’ve got real sadness due to the fact she lives at the other side of the world and I won’t really see her. And because nothing will come of this due to that fact, that makes me a real depressed shit which I have been from January and still now. I have honestly tried everything to try and forget these feelings. I’ve logged out of social media, tried to do different activities, I even tried talking to the girl about my feelings for her telling her everything, but that failed and I almost lost my good friendship with her so I don’t wanna talk to her again. I’ve tried everything!! But I can’t get rid of this pain and it’s been too long!! I recognise it takes time but I feel like it’s taking far too long. I have even self harmed countless number of times and thought about suicide multiple times. I really want help but my Parents are a lot more reluctant to that and just say I need to do stuff. But I am!!! I really want help and I’m not allowed it. Someone please help me!! I just want to be friends with her and have no feelings for her. That’s all I ask!! :’(

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  42. Zenyatta Posted on July 29, 2019 at 12:58 pm

    I had a story with a girl
    She is spanish and im Italian
    I was working in a hotel, I was doing school work experience
    I met her and after 1 week of liking her I tried with all my courage to leave a paper message to her
    just a message with"1 coffee trial"
    from that moment we started to hang out and doing things until the day when she had to leave(4 days later)
    I used all the remaining final day to spent time with her
    We danced with all the tourists and had fun, it even started to rain so much
    at 6am she had to leave and it was so sad
    A kiss and a"goodbye" with her jumping to the bus
    so much rain in that time
    it was 2 days ago
    And It's just too hard to live like before

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  43. Max Power Posted on July 31, 2019 at 3:07 am

    Video came up at the right time. Thank you YouTube

    Reply
  44. I had a breakup Posted on August 4, 2019 at 4:25 am

    2M people got dumped

    Reply
  45. R1 09 Posted on August 4, 2019 at 8:08 am

    I was told to get over someone you should get under someone else

    Reply
  46. Rohan Cchauhan Posted on August 6, 2019 at 12:21 am

    Being a guy with a damn busy schedule, still she always runs on back of my mind, its been two years since break up, still can't move on.

    Reply
  47. Jewalify Official Posted on August 8, 2019 at 9:43 pm

    Holy shit this video helped so much, thank you!

    Reply
  48. Murry Grace Posted on August 11, 2019 at 3:18 am

    If this aint a mood

    Reply
  49. Rome Blanchard Posted on August 14, 2019 at 5:12 am

    Why is it hard for me to let go of the things that aren't even mine?

    Reply
  50. The Glorious Posted on August 16, 2019 at 10:47 am

    What a lovely article.

    Reply
  51. Hossam ElGebeily Posted on August 19, 2019 at 1:21 am

    Had a dream that her and I were back together, then in a second everything was back the same 😢

    Reply
  52. Steve20127 Posted on August 20, 2019 at 8:46 am

    I lost the love of my life over 35 years ago and I still think of her. The pain is still there, but it's a bittersweet ache now, even though I will be in love with her until my last breath.

    Reply
  53. Frivolity Machine Posted on August 21, 2019 at 1:23 pm

    How come these videos all seem to be somehow negative? How to know if you're depressed. How to break up with someone, how to know if you have anxiety or PTSD? Seems like a (((Freudian))) tactic to fill us with self-doubt or just doubt in general.

    Reply
  54. Dash Cam Adventures R Us Posted on August 25, 2019 at 3:33 am

    So this was a very long way of saying just move onto someone else

    Reply
  55. Calcelmo Posted on August 27, 2019 at 12:04 pm

    A genuine childhood bliss left me once grade school progressed. We got along really well, but never dated or talked about how we feel…I’ve forgotten about her with time…yet now, 4 years later she is the first thought in my mind after I wake and the last before my sleep.

    Reply
  56. no one likes my comment Posted on August 27, 2019 at 3:17 pm

    Unrequited love in my case.

    Reply
  57. Firddaus Bakri Posted on September 2, 2019 at 6:43 pm

    On 2012 I met a woman that changed my life forever, her name is SUHADAH, I never imagined that my life would be worse like today, I suffered depression, mental illness and insomnia because I can't keep myself away from thinking about her, 7 years I had bad experience since I met and know SUHADAH, now I tried to pull myself away from her and gain some strength to let her go although I can't stop myself about thinking her, I want to tell ya that meeting a wrong person for love may bring a damage/ruin your life. And for those who had same problems with me, I hope u stay strong and keep patience, because after the darkness, the light would come

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  58. Der Noah Posted on September 6, 2019 at 1:01 pm

    Ok guys
    First of all im german so please dont be mad at me if something is grammatically wrong
    I think the people here in the comments got the same problem in another way and i would like to ask you all a question

    I feel empty because i miss a girl i love incredibly much and my problem is that there is no problem we are made for each other at least thats how it felt to me i think its called a soul mate or whatever
    The point is we wont see each other for a year
    Why?
    Because i met her in a camp and she lives in Slovakia (I live in germany) and before your asking how i could fall in love with her without being able to talk with her
    Thats another story i can explain if you are interested so now that i have described my Situation
    My question
    What can i do against this emptiness or what should i do?

    Filling it with something else like sport or eating doesnt work and i dont want to resort to alcohol either
    Please help me

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  59. Alberto Abad Sanz Posted on September 6, 2019 at 11:56 pm

    This video is fucking great

    Reply
  60. Serenjiminty Posted on September 7, 2019 at 2:45 pm

    i'm not in love or anything i just came here to read the comments so i can prepare myself

    Reply
  61. Mistah Bourbonson. Posted on September 8, 2019 at 12:04 am

    These comments are more helpful than the video

    Reply
  62. StevenleeG1 Posted on September 10, 2019 at 10:16 pm

    Why did I ever open the door and let her back in my life?? I wish she would of never came back…. How do I move on??

    Reply
  63. KAIKUNE Posted on September 11, 2019 at 12:44 pm

    It’s been only one day but I can’t do anything. There’s no motivation towards anything. It only lasted like 2 months but I was happier than I’d ever been. I have her my all and I can’t seem to see why she didn’t see that. I could see after 1 month when she started to work that we were losing contact with each other. I still loved her like nothing else. She would never do anything for me but I just wrote it off as her just not knowing how to date(since we were our first relationship). I, the hopeless romantic fell for someone who would never feel the same way as I did. Now that I’m thinking about it. I made myself happy and anybody could’ve been there. Briauna if you see this, I miss you so much but i need to move on.

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  64. queeny 333 Posted on September 12, 2019 at 1:42 pm

    what if your in love with someone in such detail,, you cant switch focus to someone else. Every little quirk and mannerism that fuels my infatuation is too specific to be replicated in someone else.

    Reply
  65. Tahir Ash Posted on September 15, 2019 at 12:17 pm

    Thank you The School of Life. I watched a lot of your videos during the lowest point of my life.

    It's during the "downtime" where I can't even grasp what's going on with me.

    But this channel had saved my life by making me understand more about myself.

    I can't thank you enough! God bless you The School of Life!

    Reply
  66. Abbey Road Posted on September 17, 2019 at 12:51 am

    Sad homie hours 🤧

    Reply
  67. MeikaPuu Posted on September 18, 2019 at 2:04 am

    I wish I never met them

    Reply
  68. Q Posted on September 27, 2019 at 2:13 am

    These comments are hilarious! bunch of heartbroken kids🤣

    Reply
  69. Alberto Urtecho Posted on September 30, 2019 at 4:40 am

    Thank you for the video!

    Can someone put subtitles? (Spanish)

    Reply
  70. first last Posted on October 10, 2019 at 3:29 pm

    I should have by now understand that it is impossible to let go of my crush. I have a big homework tomorrow and a big exam coming up next week. But I can do anything but sit here and think about him. I think he has used some kind of love potion.

    Reply
  71. Wafer Rolls Posted on October 11, 2019 at 3:02 pm

    I had a crush on someone. He liked me back but he moved two hours away from me and he doesn’t answer his social media. I’ve recently started dating someone but I only said yes because I felt too bad to say no. And I still have feelings for the first guy.

    It really hurts

    Can anyone help me get over him?

    Reply
  72. Marc Padilla Posted on October 14, 2019 at 3:00 pm

    It's always in your best interest to move on. Otherwise youd be together. Its not hard to maintain a loving relationship at all.

    Reply
  73. Mavilo Posted on October 17, 2019 at 8:32 pm

    werthers story is way too relateable

    Reply
  74. Linda Alvarado Posted on October 18, 2019 at 6:08 am

    If I had known I would spend this much time grieving the death of my relationship I would have never gone in. I wish I could stop crying already. It’s been months and I still feel so empty.

    Reply
  75. Tony Tony Posted on October 21, 2019 at 5:27 am

    F…ng B…h! Let's see how many likes I get for my personal thought.

    Reply
  76. Dave Balmada Posted on October 31, 2019 at 10:51 pm

    I swear these videos have given me such an amount of insight and knowledge! I'd probably be suffering from depression and a higher amount of anxiety if it weren't for these videos. Thank you!

    Reply
  77. zara dabz Posted on November 2, 2019 at 12:41 am

    "a squeamishness around hope….."

    Reply
  78. Gaia Miranda Posted on November 2, 2019 at 10:20 pm

    Sounds like this guy NEVER FELL IN LOVE with someone in a deep sense and did have a REAL UNDERSTANDING OF WHO THEY ARE and of the loss felt by not being able to SHARE A LIFE with them.
    Grieving takes time. Everyone senses loss in their own time, sometimes months, sometimes YEARS.
    This person speaking in the video would make a good robot. SMH :/

    Reply
  79. patkuzma Posted on November 3, 2019 at 2:08 am

    what a bitch…. texting me like she wants to cuddle and all that shit…. and after like 2 weeks she just started ignoring me…. no replying back… and i loved her and i was doing everything for her….

    Reply
  80. varala beschkuni Posted on November 4, 2019 at 7:36 pm

    "…maybe they're dead. nothing matters" lol

    Reply
  81. almigh soddaa Posted on November 8, 2019 at 5:06 pm

    Listen to Fleetwood Mac dreams lol

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  82. Rose Du merle Posted on November 9, 2019 at 4:26 pm

    The problem is, there is NOBODY like him

    Reply
  83. brooke Posted on November 13, 2019 at 3:24 am

    I tend to starve myself and lose a lot of weight after a heartbreak. I always tell myself it’s because it’s the highest form of catharsis that could possibly match the pain, and yet, I always feel like there’s a deeper truth to that which likely eludes me, no matter how much I pine over what it must be.

    Reply
  84. عادل السليمي Posted on November 16, 2019 at 3:29 pm

    i just want to get over a girl who unfollowed me on twitter and i unfollowed her back

    Reply
  85. bootnsoot Posted on November 18, 2019 at 2:38 pm

    We had too much to drink one night and had a fight. Next day I chalked it up to a dumb drunken thing. The next day he ended it. I dont get where the drunk mistake is now bigger then the 99% of the sober good times.

    Reply
  86. Robert Akin Posted on November 19, 2019 at 1:52 am

    Laurel preached so much about being loyal an not hiding things and how i needed to be a better christian…In the real world she was a nasty sex fiend with anyone that would do her nasty ass.The whole time questioning me about my loyality.HIPOCRIT!!!!!!!!!!

    Reply
  87. lauren kane Posted on November 23, 2019 at 1:16 pm

    Met this married man who said he had feelings for me (as did I) but said he wished he was in a different situation, though he still wants to be friends and work through it, why?

    Reply
  88. Yusuf Hidayat Posted on November 25, 2019 at 10:23 pm

    Bravo bravo bravo

    Reply
  89. Dennis Petrov Posted on November 28, 2019 at 6:27 pm

    When you realize all these videos are totally impracticable and you will just have to suffer it all the way through until it burns itself out. Again.

    Reply
  90. Honey bear fluffy Posted on November 29, 2019 at 4:49 pm

    I wish I was the guy who died

    Reply
  91. Marisabel Posted on December 1, 2019 at 10:08 am

    I was together with someone who is quite unstable and is starting a psychological evaluation soon. I love him and I know he loved me and still has love for me. Him and I suspected it is BPD he has, but still not sure. He was not ready for a relationship and proceeded to behave in ways that hurt me, he didn't want to hurt me anymore and I didn't want to be hurt so we ended it. It's just sad because of how much we truly care about each other, we are the only people in our lives whom we've spoken about having a future family with. It was all very beautiful when it worked. But he needs to fix himself before I ever give him the chance again. Tbh i dont think he'll ever get in touch with me again, idk. My self esteem is kind of rotten after the relationship. I just know that if the circumstances where right and he got the treatment he needed, things would've worked really well. And that keeps me up at night.

    Reply
  92. sam EZ Posted on December 2, 2019 at 1:36 pm

    What if I say I'm in hate with someone 😡

    Reply
  93. Clover Craft Posted on December 2, 2019 at 6:58 pm

    This video,, is so right!! Will work on this, thank you!

    Reply
  94. Alya Antkiv Posted on December 2, 2019 at 8:31 pm

    Lmao i’m in love with the actor who plays “Lara” in “Girl” cause he goes to my school and i see him everyday and it’s pretty fucked up

    Reply
  95. one viewer Posted on December 3, 2019 at 4:41 am

    what if you are not just in love? what if you idolize someone, you only want to spend your life with them? how do you get over that?

    Reply
  96. Rachael Nicholas Posted on December 3, 2019 at 12:14 pm

    I will end it for good. Its just a vicious circle of control and marlipulation

    Reply
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